There are some themes perfect for starting a conversation when we have not yet developed certain privacy and can be used to discover the interests in common. These topics can be sports, music, cinema or gastronomy, to give just a few examples. Generally it is not advisable to start with religion, politics or family problems at the initial stage. You can tell a joke, but remember that tone uploaded jokes must stop them totally side in early talks. When you’ve talked more than once with the same person and you’re comfortable, you can provide your e-mail address, but remember that this is the first step towards achieving a certain intimacy, therefore allows your instincts to tell when it is time. Please use caution! Stay away from the instant intimacy. There are many people who feel that email never will have the touch of warmth provided letters written by hand on paper and sent via the traditional postal service.
This may be true, but it is also the fact that the email has the advantage of being here and now. There is a tendency to build intimacy in a faster way than we were accustomed in our traditional contacts on the internet. You must keep the guard well in high and constantly remind yourself that the person with whom you are talking – at least in a principle – it’s a stranger. The best thing you can do is to avoid any kind of instant intimacy by more seductive to appear. In fact matters little if anything they encounter you reserved at the beginning, this can fix it easily by mentioning that it takes you some time feel comfortable with a person. In fact may be a small warning very useful since in reality is what you’re wanting to give to understand – without saying so – well, I’m sorry but I’m not a superficial person who has my stuff to the first who crosses.
There is something that many of my readers will surely want to know and how to know when the other person is lying. As discussed previously, the Internet can be a pretty insecure site and therefore we have to take all the documents to be absolutely sure of the good faith of the other person before disclosing any personal detail about ourselves. We have therefore devoted a section specially to address this important issue.