Giving justification, you whittle down by orders. When a child sees that, following the request, make you happy smile, he begins to understand what behavior is good and correct. Children learn what is right and wrong, when cooperate and fulfill your requests, but not when listening to lectures. "Why?" And because I am – your mother! "- The best response when a child does not want to obey. Adolescents often bring their parents almost to a nervous failure, questioning and challenging any of their orders. Parents try to substantiate their claims and lost. Child or young person asks one question after another, and every answer your situation is becoming more shaky. With each answer you give in to the new span of his power.
All that is needed for children – to ask all new questions that they do. If a child or young person is ready to listen to your arguments, then another thing, but if he just resists your will, it will challenge any arguments, how good they are. In formulating the team should take into account the temperament of the child. The first four temperaments temperament – sensitive. Sensitive children vulnerable and sensitive.
They were acutely aware of their own reactions to life's circumstances relating to their needs and desires. In order to adapt to life, they must clearly understand their own feelings – and in If so, they are more likely to make the changes. These children respond best when they listen to and understand. Sensitive children need the sympathy and recognition of their feelings and grievances.