Tag "Self"

  • Game Stage

    You can not try to 'land a' teenager trying to get him to think purely pragmatic. If any errors on the part of others can harm intelligence and creative abilities. And at the end of this stage and moving to a new stage, stage rune Laguz, just and it is time to 'entry' into life in the world (in all its manifestations). The period of adolescence. Scary, sometimes dangerous, risky. Sometimes developed intellect 'lost' in this stormy sea, and sometimes even prevent, because there are not, and often very much defies logic.

    It was only subconscious, intuition might suggest the right solutions. On the one hand. C On the other hand, need to adapt their skills to real and concrete world, to real and specific needs. And most importantly – to dare to overcome their fears, doubts, uncertainty, indecision. If this stage will not be effective for the younger man, then as an adult he will have lots of problems. But one can not 'overlook' the child's passion for the game, you can not miss the moment when the child is too carried away by these processes and will turn into a player, let alone encourage it.

    Time and stage of runes Ingwaz. Accelerated growth, the final sexual maturation. The midst of adolescence. Mortgaging the level of vitality and life energy sexual attraction, sexuality. And it is very important to keep harmony in all matters. Any bias then it will be difficult to fix. And then there is a problem of fathers and children. The problem itself is not new.

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  • Why Failure Is Not There

    Have you asked yourself the question, what is success? Maybe even looked in the dictionary? I have not looked in the dictionary and the definitions will not give. I'm just a little shock you. Because I say that NO FAILURE. Do not you agree? And who said it would be easy? But do not despair. is vital information. Right now explain what I mean.

    We are now just using a couple of spells go beyond success and failure. We will be on them. You at least agree that each has its own subjective criteria for success? Everyone understands it differently. Someone thinks that the new job with a salary increase of 15% the same – it's an achievement. And someone a million bucks – an intermediate step to a higher purpose. Someone writes a book and am glad that it distance, and someone is aiming to bestsellers.

    Someone on the exam three suffice for the eyes and the other is a re-take the four. You, too, for sure, my idea of success, your success criteria. And you created them yourself (although it is probably not without someone's 'authoritative' opinion). Now divide each of the results of their actions into two categories – a successful or unsuccessful. If the result is stored in the category of "unsuccessful," most people upset, angry at themselves, criticize and disparage a set of more sophisticated methods, which you hopefully do not tell. Thus, nevrotiziruya themselves if something goes according to plan. But they defined these criteria! Ie themselves painted themselves into a trap:) I will not mention here, that someone has these same criteria din parents, school, television or some other extraneous artifact of our lives.

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